High School Reunions
Attending my 20-year high school reunion recently brought me face-to-face with my teenage self in unexpected ways. It was easy to slip back into old patterns - hugging the walls, avoiding conversations with unfamiliar faces, and feeling intimidated by those I once perceived as more popular.
I realized how much I've changed, yet how easily old insecurities can resurface. This experience made me contemplate what advice I'd give to my younger self. And maybe what advice I'd give to my children.
+ Smile more, smile often.
+ Enjoy sleeping in while you can, no one likes the girl who wakes everyone up! One day, you'll consider 7 AM a "sleep-in."
+ Being cliquey is comfortable, but branch out. Talk to others outside your circle of sports friends. Don't be afraid to talk with someone who seems to not share interests.
+ You will find yourself, eventually. It just takes time. Confidence will grow as the years fly by. Be patient with the process.
+ Don't fret about what others think of you - your frizzy hair, your boy clothes, your lack of comebacks. Truth is, they're not thinking about you as much as you imagine.
+ Wear the retainer - your future self (and dentist) will thank you.
+ When your teacher compliments your writing, and you win that award, don’t brush it off. Your words have power. Explore what it might be like as a writer.
+ Don't stop playing piano. Even though soccer is your life, and will lead you to your husband. Being well-rounded will be more valuable in the art of staying married. :)
+ Date around. Maybe your mom was right? Don’t put all your eggs in one basket, because they will break. Remember no person will ever make you whole.
+ Eat the ice cream while you can - your metabolism is at its peak!
